The Baby Grind

Well first of all let me tell you that Brenna's first almost 2 months at home have gone by incredibly fast-kept putting updating the blog off until tomorrow & somehow here we are a month later.....Brenna is doing great!! We have officially tripled in weight & are 6 1/2 pounds-at our last Pedi appointment we finally made it onto the the 'normal baby' growth chart (at the very bottom, 10% curve, but on it!!) as well as finally no longer being a negative age-she would be a couple of weeks old if she had been born on the 9-month plan! In the last blog I wrote about her just figuring out how to cry, let me assure you that our little Bean has not only figured out the crying stuff, but is a real pro! I haven't been able to distinguish different cries for her different needs yet, but it is almost always due hunger, poopy pants or her wanting to be held. I can't speak about other babies, but Brenna is definately not one who likes to be alone, sure she likes her swing & her bouncy chair, but if it were up to her she would stay permanently attached to my chest & most of the time she does. Let me tell you I can think of very few things that are as calming & as wonderful as having a little baby curled up on your chest....don't even get me started on her baby smell......She is eating on a pretty regular 2-3 hour schedule, but (luckily for us sleepy parents) she is finally starting to double up on some of her late afternoon feedings & is starting to sleep longer periods of time between her night feedings-just wish it were the 3am instead of the midnight feeding, but we will take what we can get! We had our meeting with ECI (Early Childhood Intervention which provides services for 0-2 year olds who have special needs, speech therapy, etc) & am extremely happy to report that she did not qualify at this time!! In fact Brenna was ahead of her adjusted age in all areas except for communication in which she was right on track-our little over achiever! The two big milestones were are waiting for are her turning her head in the direction of our voices & her smiling when she sees us. I can't even imagine what it will feel like when she looks at me, sees me & smiles (we do get some smiles now but I think they are more fart related than anything else....)!! All in all, so far so good-knock on wood-one happy baby, two incredibly happy parents! Will update again soon, but for now I gotta finish up here at the store so I can hurry home & cuddle with my baby:)

Big Girls Do Cry

Brenna has been home for over two weeks now & we are all setteling into a routine-well as much as you can be in a routine after a week because that’s how long we waited until we headed down to Grandpa & Grandma’s house. Let me tell you it is a whole lot easier adjusting to parenthood when you do it on the beach (and you do it with veteran supervision…).
I know I am going to jinx myself & deeply regret saying this, but so far Brenna has been such an easy baby (ok, not counting the 2 months in the NICU….). We have kept to the same 3 hour feeding schedule that she was on in the hospital, each of us alternating both feeding & diapering. Trust me, Brenna has gotten quite an earful on why she should poop on the other parents timetable (can you bribe a baby…?)….We figure that if we keep the baby happy she will have no reason to cry-so far its working, well sort of. Brenna doesn’t really know how to cry, she does when she is in pain (she WAILED after her first two shots-I cringe just thinking about it!), but as a means of communication she hasn’t quite figured it out, but she is getting awfully close. As terrible as this may sound, hearing her cry at the Doctors office was actually oddly reassuring & comforting to us as parents because it is only the second time we had ever heard her cry. Some people have said that babies don’t cry in the NICU (preemies don’t cry) & I had thought this was true, but it should be that not all babies cry in the NICU, but others babies (preemies) do & they cry all the time (seriously, sometimes I thought maybe they tortured babies in other bays….). It’s just that Brenna was more of the strong silent type, she started out fussy, but she settled into the NICU routine rather quickly & has been a rather easy going baby ever since. However, Brenna is slowly figuring out this whole crying thing-she is about halfway there-it really is an interesting process to watch her figure things out. Bean will scrunch up her face, look like she is going to tear up & make an intial ‘waaa’ sound (not always in that order) & that’s it, no continuation, no big ‘finale’ & really the only time she has done this is when one of us slept through the midnight or 3 am feeding alarm. As a Mom I have mixed emotions about the whole crying thing. On one hand I do not want one of ‘those’ (yup, the horror story crying ALL the time) babies, but on the other hand there are times I know she is agitated or wants something, but I don’t know what it is & crying would be her way of communicating it to me. One of my NICU buddy Mom’s has a daughter about 2 months older than Bean so she has been a great source of information of what’s to come for me, but she had said that her daughter has got the different cries for different things. Part of me has to say, how cool is that?! As we get closer to her ‘due date’ (she will be 39 weeks on Thursday!) I am sure that there will be quite a few things that suddenly ‘click’ for little Bean. All I know is that when I hear the slightest ‘waa’ sound I am at her side in an instant, all I hope is that when she does get it all figured out, Mommy can figure out how to make everything better-just because she can cry doesn’t mean she has to………

The Power of the Magical Blue Nipple

Ok, ok I know this blog is REALLY late, but hey I am a first time Mom with a baby to care for at home…Yes, you read correctly Brenna was discharged from the hospital on Tuesday-& yes it did come a lot sooner than I expected (I guess I blinked….). It took almost a week for me to be able to settle into a routine & get some sleep-there are no monitors at home so it took that long to have faith in the fact that she would keep breathing (Kevin & I actually had to have a conversation about this…..). Of course, I mean sleep in the loosest sense of the word, incremental naps is probably a much better description, but at least I do feel as though I finally have the brain function to put semi-coherent sentences together (but really, you should be the judge of that because I could be writing in martian for all I know…). To put your minds at ease (& I still keep reminding myself), do know that our little Bean had a wonderful & very good team of Doctors & Nurses & that they would by no means have let her go home with us if there was any reason for them to think that she wasn’t ready. As for us being ready, well……
This time last week I had hit a wall & honestly thought that Brenna had too-there was even talk about her going back on the feeding tube because she was having a hard time taking all her feeds by bottle & she was taking only the bare minimum at each feed. While other babies her age were happily still relaxing en-uteri, we were asking her to breathe, keep warm & eat all on her own- maybe we were asking her to do too much. She was, after all, only 35 weeks old & still so little (as the Dr’s kept reminding me-never a good sign…). I was beginning to feel as though we were never going to leave the hospital, & as much as I tried to be optimistic (after 2 months my sanity was starting to depend on it…); I know everyone around me thought I was nuts & believed that we were going to be there for the long haul. Life in the NICU is, after all, a marathon- set backs are to be expected & (in all fairness) I was told we were most likely going to be there until she reached term-I should have expected, no, I should have hoped for only another month in the NICU. As my Dad once told me- ‘hope in one hand, shit in the other, see which fills up faster…’-all I knew is that the diapers (if not hands), were getting very full very fast……as optimistic as I tried to be, it was beginning to seem like we were never going home. Ever.
Dorothy may have had her red ruby slippers to get her home, but unfortunately (& trust me, I looked…) fancy foot ware is not something easily found in a hospital, let alone in the NICU . Ok, so yellow brick roads, flying monkeys & wizards aren’t so easily found either (I could argue for a Wicked Witch or two….), but there was a ‘Good Nurse of the East’ (or Naomi as she is also called) & she had something better than amazing heels (I can’t believe I said that….)-behold the magical blue nipple (insert angelic singing here) & it’s awesome power to get one baby home (insert more angelic singing here.) Instead of throwing in the towel just yet, Naomi suggested that we try Brenna’s next feed with a hi-flow blue nipple (versus the wicked low-flow white nipple we had been using) because maybe the problem wasn’t with Brenna remembering to suck, swallow, breathe & repeat, maybe it was that she was just tired from working so hard to eat. Naomi said this at the end of Brenna’s 9 am feed, one that Brenna had barely finished & had only finished after both Naomi & I had tried to feed her. I was willing to try but I was not expecting much-maybe I had begun to doubt the super specialness of my little Bean….What was I thinking?! A 4 ½ pound baby proved just how super-duper & extra special she really was, not only did she take her next feed in record time, she had eaten more than ever before! Through the very small hole of the magical blue nipple I could see there was light (albeit faint) at the end of the tunnel, end of the yellow brick road, end of the whatever-home was no longer a distant land (or tornado) away. From that feeding on Brenna continued to increase how much she ate, that evening we were at 60mL, or the amount that ‘babies that go home’ eat. This was all last Sunday morning, Monday we were asked if we wanted to room-in with her (which is a whole blog itself….), where we stay in a room with her over night at the hospital to see how she (& we) do. Tuesday morning the phone in the room rang ”‘what do you think about going home today?”
The diapers may have been full (& a little stinky…), but behold the power of the magical blue nipple & it’s awesome power to get my baby home.

Are we there yet...?

Well it has been quite an eventful week-little Bean is getting to be a big girl! Not only has she doubled her weight (4 lbs 4 oz!), but she has finally graduated to a big girl bed (open air bassinet)! Don’t even think that that is all our little ‘overachiever’ has been up to as last night she officially lost her feeding tube! So the countdown to homecoming has officially begun!

As I had mentioned in my last blog there are four criteria Brenna must meet before she is allowed to come home:

1. She must breathe on her own/no A’s & B’s (apnea bradicardia-or forgets to breathe)

2. She must maintain her own temperature

3. She must take all her feeds by breast or bottle (no gavage feeds/tube feeds) &

4. She must consistently gain weight (on a 22 cal or lower feed).

First all the good news, & don’t worry it is a much longer list than the not so good news list which I will get to later.

1. Brenna has been sans snorkel gear (CPAP) & had her caffeine stopped last week (preemies are given caffeine to help remind them to breathe) so she is/& has been breathing on her own for over a week(ish). However, before she can go home she will have had to go at least 7 days without any episodes of A’s & B’s (not breathing.) Brenna had a few episodes initially, but luckily each of these were ones that she self recovered which means that she began breathing again on her own or she began breathing with some stimulation on her back (think baby back rub). The good news is that she has been episode free since the 17^th, 3 days down, 4 more to go! Now, this sounds a lot scarier than it is (not breathing?!) , as these events last no longer than 20 seconds & (as far as I know) do nothing more than cause a brief heart rate drop. The main cause of this is that she is premature: her brain/nervous system has not fully developed but will correct itself in time (this is not an issue in term babies unless there is something wrong with them-abnormal). When she is done cooking (so to speak, hey I am a chef) she will no longer ‘forget’ to breathe.

2. Brenna has been in an open-air crib for almost a week now & has had no problems maintaining her own temperature. The best part about this (besides the fact that she is one-step closer to coming home) is that she can wear clothes & that we can pick her up & hold her anytime we want to! Which reminds me, I still owe y’all a picture of her in her ducky outfit…..On second thought, look up cute in the Dictionary & if there isn’t a picture under the definition of cute, well then you probably need to buy a newer edition….J

3. As of last night, Brenna finally lost her feeding tube, which means that she has taken all her feeds by bottle for over 24 hours (she eats every 3 hours). Again, this is something that comes with maturity, somewhere between 34 & 36 weeks (Brenna was 35 weeks yesterday) babies begin to acquire the ability to suck, swallow & breathe. She must be able to take her entire feed within 30 minutes by bottle or breast. This is a lot easier said than done, I did not know that (in preemies anyway) this is a learned behavior. What I also did not know is that, apparently, a parent being able to teach this skill (for me anyway, did I miss the class on this?!) is one learned through much trail & even more error. I figure that between my bath time exfoliating blunder & my many initial failed attempts at feeding her (think baby milk bath-or baby milk facial) Brenna will have some of the smoothest & softest skin around……On a personal note, I finally understand why people would cry, cry a lot & then cry some more (with very good reason), over spilled milk….

4. Lastly, & I know what your thinking: ‘with all this good news why isn’t she home?’ So here comes the not quite so good news-Brenna’s weight gain. I know, trust me I know, it seems like Brenna has been gaining weight like a Sumo wrestler preparing for a fight, so what could be the problem?! Initially she was on a 28 cal feed (I think it is calories per mL/cc, but don’t quote me because I am probably wrong -there is a big number 28 on the bottle), but over the past week she has been gradually reduced on the amount of calories & gradually increased on the volume per feed. However, as they make these changes, it is not a zero sum game; there is a reduction in calories as the calories (per something) go down & the volume goes up. Currently we are on a 22 cal feed, & yes as you probably correctly remembered this is the amount she will be Ok to go home on (rarely they will send preemies home on 24 cal), but she is not gaining weight consistently. In the past three days she has been up 9 grams (15 to 30 is average/optimal), up 14 grams & then last night down 4 grams. Not all hope is lost however, instead of bumping her up on a higher calorie feed (read: delaying homecoming), the Dr. instead has ordered that Brenna ‘eat until she can ‘eat no more.’ Let her eat as much as she can (but no less than 45 cc’s) & see if her weight gain begins to stabilize to a consistent amount. What this means (to me anyway) is that the Dr. is still thinking about Brenna going home in the not too distant future, as that is the ONLY reason she hasn’t just been bumped up to a higher calorie feed (ok, this is what the nurse said too).

Well, that is where we are, we should “start thinking about going home”, are “one to three weeks away” & “definitely under a month” to homecoming depending on which Dr I corner & force some sort of vague answer from. All I know is that it is getting close to feeding time & that the next four to seven days are critical. I don’t want Brenna home until she’s ready, but let me tell you Mom & Dad are ready (to be done with the NICU at least). Some of the Moms I know who have already gone home all tell me it ‘sneaks up on you’... this is only true in as much as a watched pot finally boiling sneaks up on you (I guess if you have a ill-timed blink…). All I can ask is Are we there yet…?! How about now...?!

Grandma's Perspective

Welcome blogees. Aimee let me get on just to let you know about the most incredible weekend we just had. We went to visit expecting to see Aimee and Kevin's sweet little alien and instead found this adorable baby. Brenna has really blossomed. Instead of just seeing tubes, we could see her face and all her expressions. She is amazing. You can sit and watch her forever. She has learned about 2,000 different expressions and uses them all. We just needed some popcorn and drink to make it complete - we could have sat and watched the exciting drama that goes across her face for hours.

The highlight of the weekend was getting to kangaroo care with Brenna. When Aimee put her up against me, her heartbeat just echoed through my body. Hers was going a lot faster than mine and I was working to get us both in rhythm. Then she put her tiny little hands against me and it was all peace. If you ever wondered what heaven was like, I can now tell you. Talk about a calming sensation - better than any meditation or glass of wine! It stayed wonderful and then, oh my gosh - Brenna stopped breathing! I went into a panic and turned to Aimee and excitedly told her to call the nurse. Don't stop with the nurse, have the hospital call a code! Aimee just leaned over and calmly rubbed Brenna's back and she started to breath again. I don't know if I was more amazed by how it was handled so easily or by watching my daughter take such a command of the situation. I learned to look at both her and Kevin through different eyes. They may have always been mature adults and I just didn't notice, but I sure got a glimpse of it this weekend. Anyway, Brenna did just fine. The first time I saw her she held my little finger and I didn't want to wash my finger. Now after the kangaroo care I don't want to wash my whole chest!

We then went to a shower given by the Firefighters. It was wonderful and we got to meet many of the people Kevin works with and their wives. It was inspirational to us to see so many admirable people in one place and they way they care for Aimee and Kevin. Austin's population is definitely growing by the number of babies, toddlers, and pregnant women present! One of the women who was at the hospital with Aimee, brought her ex-preemie, now totally big healthy baby with her and it was so encouraging to know that would be Brenna in a month. Aimee will have lots of people to turn to for advice. Good thing as every time Aimee asked me a question, I didn't have a clue what she was talking about.

Saturday night was Ron's turn and he got to feed Brenna. Whoa - he was pretty excited, but I don't think he understood what he was in for. Brenna needs to take a whole bottle, but she tends to want to fall asleep about half way through it. Ron found that tickling her foot seemed to work. She would open her mouth in what looked like a smile and in would go the nibble. She does have a mind of her own and when she decides to clam shut her mouth, she means business. It was definitely a nice, slow leisurely meal with little naps in-between courses. It worked as when we went in Sunday morning, Brenna had moved houses! She is no longer in the isolet, but moved to a regular preemie baby bed right out there in the open air. That was all due to the fact that she had gained enough weight. Of course, Aimee had to quickly remake the bed so her sheet and blanket matched her outfit. She looked adorable. It was hard not to keep bothering her and let her sleep.

We left Kevin and Aimee deep in conversation about making the final adjustments for Brenna's homecoming. As I left, I glanced around at some of the other babies and realized just how far we had come. Thank you everyone for your thoughts and prayers. Dorothy

Check out these amazing photos!!!

Thanks to Pete Constantine who is a fantastic photographer, our good friend and fellow AFD Lieutenant who took these amazing photos of Brenna on her last day with the CPAP on!

http://pconstantine.com/#gallery/Newborns/Brenna

Password: BRENNAK

A++

If you are reading the blog I guess you know me, my husband, one of the grandparents or any combination of us. That being said, you know a type A personality, why do I point this out? Well Brenna is the result of the union of two type A personalities from a long line of type A personalities-what does this union get you-super special baby (I do believe that is the correct medical term) that's what. And it's not just a Mother's pride there, that would be adding that she may, in fact, be the worlds cutest baby too, but I digress. At this stage, 34 weeks, Brenna should start to show some interest in sucking/nippeling & start to take part of her feed from the bottle so that she starts to get used to it. She should be (hopefully) having very few apneas (forgets to breathe) maybe off of the nasal canula (oxygen) but still getting her daily dose of caffeine to help remind her to breathe. This is also the point where we would start to think about putting her in clothes & maybe start to think about turning down the temperature in her isolet to see if she can maintain her temperature & one day move on to an open-air bed. Well, all that is what a 'normal' girl her age would be doing, but not my super special girl!
Mom & Dad thought I was nuts when I told them that Brenna's countdown to going home has begun, but we are most likely looking at two weeks according to the Doctor, can you believe it? Brenna is not only breathing room air with no cannula, but they stopped her caffeine today as well. If she has no apnea in the next 9 days she will have checked off one of the criteria for her to go home. Not only is she breathing room air, she is maintaining her temperature at room air is well. In fact, she will be out of the isolet & in an open air crib tomorrow or Sunday at the latest-that will be one more check mark on the list. The final criteria? She needs to take all her feeds by bottle or nipple & have done so for at least a few days, a process we initiated a couple of days ago. Again, my little gourmand wanted to impress & has been taking every other feeding (the entire feed) from a bottle! This may not sound impressive, but keep in mind that babies do not develop the sucking muscles/intuition until they come to term (about 37 weeks). Yup, that's my girl-my super special incredibly cute girl-gosh, she reminds me of someone I know.....;)

Better than bath time?!

I know what your thinking-what could possibly be better than bath-time?! I'll tell you in a minute, but first let me get you caught up with what has been going on in Brenna land because it has been an exciting week! First things first if you saw the caption on the picture you know that Brenna hit the magic preemie weight number & is FINALLY over 1500 grams & lost her snorkle gear (CPAP)!! She was breathing room air only, but did have a couple of apneas (where she forgets to breath for a few seconds) so she is on a nasal cannula (same thing that adults use when they need oxygen) just to help keep her lungs open. That was an exciting day, Dad & I hoped to be there for the big event (I mean its not like we live in the hospital or anything...), but unfortunately we were not invited to the CPAP party =(
Losing the snorkel gear is exciting for many reasons: she is a step closer to coming home (breathing on her own!), we can see more of her beautiful face & what is looking like red hair, she can wear clothes and, drum roll please, we can start to bottle & breast feed- let me tell you this (well at least for the first few times) is better than bath time! Daddy had the honors of getting to bottle feed Brenna for the first time while I was at work, I wanted it described in every detail, but ended up having to find out for myself (he can be a man of few words). Right now she is still on the feeding tube & we are only introducing the nipple (both) as a way for her to start associating it (latching/sucking) with being full. It is really cool to see her get it, start sucking & staring up at you while she does it, this, unlike kangaroo time, gives you a lot of Brenna face time. Speaking of Brenna face time, I gotta run it's time to nurse again.....

Temperature is Rising!

Yup, we have hit another Brenna milestone! We have passed the 3 lb mark, can you believe that she has basically had a 50% weight gain in the past month?! What is really neat is that now that she is filling out (& there is still a long way to go) she looks a lot more like a really cute baby and much less like a (hate to say it but a bit alienesque does come to mind) preemie. She is now 1460 grams & if you remember the magic preemie number is 1500 grams so we should lose the CPAP in the next couple of days-this is panning out to be a really exciting week!
The Saga of the Squeaky Clean Baby continues & just got a whole lot more fun-now that Brenna has gotten bigger we have graduated to a 'bathtub!' Of course, by bathtub I mean a 4 qt plastic container (4 qt=1 g, so imagine Brenna taking a bath in your gallon of milk) & for those of you who have not had a chance to meet Brenna-this is a very roomy tub. In the picture above you can see that I VERY generously shared bath time with Dad-he did great but now we are fighting over cleaning rights to the baby! The best part about bath time (& as you know I could go on & on about the virtues of bath time) is that it is really the only opportunity that we get to feel like real parents. With round the clock care we (as preemie parents) feel like visitors most of the time & I know that there can be bonding issues because of this. Bath time is one of the few times we get to do traditional parent things & see her without all her sensors & snorkle gear. Even better is that with each successful bath or diaper change we actually begin to feel as though maybe we are starting to get this whole parenting thing & that maybe we do know what we are doing. For a first time parent let me tell you that this feeling is huge-maybe everything will be ok when all the Dr's & nurses are gone & its just Mom & Dad.......I spent the rest of the afternoon on a parental high note, thinking that maybe we can muddle through this...that is until I turned into the baby aisle at HEB......

Another bath, Another birthmark

To say that I am not the neatest person in the world would be a bit of an understatement. Growing up I used to clean my room only as part of the barter system-usually as a way to not to have to eat my Mom's soup (sorry...I am sure that she has now disowned me ;)...) or as my hubby keeps telling me I seem to be the only person he knows who is able to make a mess while cleaning. Really, I can't help it, maybe it is genetic...? All that being said I must say when it comes to bath time & cleaning Brenna I am hooked & will have one seriously squeaky clean baby! As they say baby changes everything...
Bath time was a lot easier today & Bean seemed to enjoy it a lot more-we did not cry once in fact her vital signs were unchanged the whole time. I think it may have been due to her being a bit bigger & able to stay warmer (she is 2 lbs 15 oz!) as well as maybe a bit better supervision. Crib head (think really bad baby dandruff) is a big issue with preemies, especially with the CPAP, so there is a little soft brush that we use to scrub any dead skin from their heads-& use only on their heads. I was so into bath time last time that all I heard was later, brush, rinse & basically scrubbed her whole little body with the brush. I imagine that is probably why Brenna didn't enjoy bath time as much last time....but hey she has incredibly smooth skin now....
We did find out that Bean has another birthmark, it is not a permanent one but will grow in size for the next year & then disappear (sorry but I don't remember the technical term) which is a good thing because it is smack dab in the middle of her upper lip. If you look closely at the photo you can see it, close up it looks like a blood blister, on the photo it looks like a smudge. Other than that not too much to report, but expect a big announcement tomorrow as we are only 1 oz away from 3 lbs!

Beans' Big Belly

Greetings sports fans! Mom is back & let me assure you there will be no more blog delays-mainly because they are running out of stuff to take out of my belly! That & wearing pants is hard enough as is with so much of my abdomen covered with incisions....enough about me let's get to the good stuff-Brenna.
I am happy to report, once again, that Brenna is maintaining her 'boring' reputation (remember this is a good thing in preemie land) with very few changes. She is creeping up to her first big milestone of 3 lbs at a current weight of 2 lbs 14 oz (for those on the metric system 16 oz in a pound)! We expect her to be off of CPAP and at a very healthy 1500 grams by next week-& yes as soon as I can put her in her ducky outfit I will post pics! Her only issue at the moment, & in the grand scheme of things it is a very minor one, is that the air from the CPAP has caused distension in her belly. The biggest consequence of a big air belly is that it is uncomfortable for Brenna, but left unattended could cause some digestion issues. As a remedy they have lowered the CPAP setting from a 5 to a 4 to lessen the amount of air being blown into her lungs (& winding up in her belly) as well as inserting a second feeding tube to try & vent out some of the extra 'belly air.' For Dad & me the biggest consequence was not being able to hold her for 2 days because all the air in her belly made it too uncomfortable for her to Kangaroo :( Her belly seems to be a little bit better-thankfully better enough that it we can hold her again-but hopefully should be a non-issue very soon as she only needs to gain 200g to be rid of the CPAP once & for all. No new labs, x-rays or scans in the near future, we expect it to be a very boring week indeed. :)

Gallbladder… what the heck does that do anyway?

UPDATE: 8:20 p.m. - Aimee is out of surgery and everything went well!!!

So for those of you who don’t know, here is a little biology lesson. Bile is a digestive liquid continually secreted by the liver. Bile contains water, cholesterol, fats, bile salts, proteins, and bilirubin. Remember the blue “bili light” Brenna was under two weeks ago? The function of the gallbladder is to remove the water and other substances from the bile and to serve as a reservoir until bile is needed in the small intestine. If the liquid bile contains too much cholesterol, bile salts, or bilirubin, it can harden into gallstones.

And that short lesson brings us to yesterday evening when Aimee discovered that she had too much bilirubin in her system. When I say discovered, I mean she walked into the house crying and said “take me to the E.R. because I think I have too much bilirubin in my system” or was it “take me to the E.R. my abdomen is cramping worse than when I had preeclampsia and for once I’m sure there is no way I am pregnant!” Anyway, off we went to the hospital in Kyle and quickly discovered that Aimee had developed gallstones caused by elevated bilirubin levels due to her body attempting to recover after the preeclampsia and C-section.

The Kyle staff was great and transferred us to Seton main last night so that Aimee could have her surgery (scheduled for 6:30 p.m. today) and recovery in the same hospital as Brenna. As long as the surgery goes as planned, Aimee should be released sometime in the next 48 hrs, but for now, Daddy will be sitting bedside with Mom and best of all, taking advantage of Mom being knocked out on Dilaudid to steal a little extra kangaroo time with Brenna!

Rub-A-Dub-Dub, Brenna In A Tub!

Ok, maybe not exactly in a tub because she is too small, but Mom gave Brenna her first 'bath'! I never knew that two small buckets of warm water, a couple pieces of gauze & baby shampoo could be so much fun (seriously, this was the highlight of my day, cried on the way home). Fun for me anyway, Brenna did NOT like bath time-at the rate that she wiggles out of all her tubes & probes I thought she would enjoy naked time! Dad did get a couple great pics of Bean with her eyes open and sans snorkle gear, put a couple more of them on Facebook. I do have to add that-well first let me say that Brenna is my child & the cutest thing on the planet in my eyes (& she would be if she were green and had 3 eyes & 6 arms)-but she has a bit of a cone head due to the CPAP (technical term is CPAP head, seriously) that will reshape once she is breathing on her own. If it doesn't it must be inherited from Dad....;)
Brenna is still doing well, in fact no new news to report-just need for her to gain the weight, other than that just more of the same. We did get to decorate her Isolet after her bath with sheets that we brought (thanx Mom & Dad)-can't wait for her to be big enought to wear clothes because she has the CUTEST ducky romper (little duck feet...) that matches her ducky blanket! In the meantime the Nurse did say we could decorate her CPAP hat-Baby's R Us here I come!

2 Lbs 6 oz!

First, let me apologize for the tardiness of the Brennadate, but let me assure you the news has all been steady & good! Grandma’s & Grandpa’s have been in town & we spent some time getting the nursery together-now that we have a beautiful crib (thank you Grandma & Grandpa K!) we can bring her home! Well, we can bring her home when she’s big & ready…

Brenna has FINALLY started to gain weight-a whopping 4 oz in 4 days, at this rate we will be 2.5 lbs next week...only another 2.5 lbs to go… It seems that 1500 grams seems to be the magical premie number, everything ‘eventful’ seems to happen at this weight- we can lose the snorkel gear, wear clothing (we have the CUTEST little duck outfit for her to wear) & will be able to start nippeling (she is currently on a feeding tube, all breast milk though). Always the overachiever, Brenna has doubled her food intake in the past week going from 15 cc's to 30 cc's, she has been tolerating the feedings really well with less than 1 cc residual (the semi-digested leftover food, anything under 5.5 cc’s is good).

If you see the little mark on Brenna’s big ol’ belly that is her little birthmark it is small & sits right below the diaper line. At least I will not have to worry about anyone swapping out my baby-she’s markedJ!

Dr told me today to expect more of the same for the next couple of weeks; they do have to keep reminding me that in premie world boring is a good thing. He did tell me that Brenna turned 30 weeks on Thursday-I know, I know, & yes, she was born on a Tuesday…..? Apparently they track gestational age to the day (crazy, & I have no idea how) & she was born at 27 weeks and 5 days-hey anything that brings my little Bean a little closer to coming home=)

Bean's New Digs

First let me apologize for the tardiness of this entree (Mom), this Mommy was a little under the weather yesterday. I am in the process of adding new photos to the blog & facebook so stay tuned-I don't know why they are taking so long to load.....
Had great news today, Brenna got moved into a new Isolet (bed/machine that she currently lives in) because she is stable-can you believe it!!!!-& they needed the other Isolet for some new premies. I know I have a tendency to tear up every 30 minutes, but talk about tears of joy..!
Good news keeps on coming, Brenna's feedings have increased both in quantity and in frequency; in a week she has gone from 3 cc's every 6 hours to a whopping 11 cc's every 4 hours. Good thing the nurses have labeled me the 'Milk Machine' at the rate she's going! At the rate her food is increasing her weight should start going up at a steady pace-in the next week or two she should be off of her CPAP (snorkle looking breathing device) & fully breathing on her own.
Keeping it short tonight as it is way past my bedtime, please keep your fingers crossed & Brenna in your prayers. Sweet Dreams.....

Sweatin' the Small Stuff

Brenna is officially over a week old, only 12 more weeks to go......I know they say having a premie is like riding a roller coaster, all ups & downs....think I'm on the one that Fabio was on, yup rogue bird & broken nose......except my hair isn't nearly as pretty...
Brenna continues to do great, but this is a marathon & not a sprint with each hurdle we pass another one pops up on the horizon. As of today her bilirubin levels are now low enough that she has been taken off of light therapy & lost her little baby shades. I know that she only sees vague blobs, but there is nothing like having your baby look up into your eyes; she knows I'm there. Her digestion continues to be up & down, but they do continue to increase her food amount which is great because she is slowly gaining weight. At the premie age the stomach just hasn't developed yet & as Brenna's Dr. put it needs to be 'jump started' with food & sipositories (I give the nurses A LOT of credit-you can only imagine how tiny these things are & they are clear), hopefully the body just figures it out; in the mouth, out the other side. I may be paraphrasing just a little, but that is pretty much exactly how the Dr. explained it to me, really.
Only other 'point of interest' is her platelet levels are a little low, not low enough that the Dr. is concerned at the moment, but if it doesn't start to increase in the following week then the possible reasons would all be really unpleasant things with really unpleasant possible diseases &/or disabilities. While I sweat all the stuff big & small, this is one area where I am just going to wait & only worry if I have too; the unpleasantness being that unpleasant.
Tomorrow brings another round of tests so I will keep you posted, as of now our little girl is as great as she can be, just to make sure I am doing all I can I am going to say goodnight & do some Kangaroo Care:0)

Blue Light Special

I know what your thinking-really a tanning bed for the baby? Hey, this is Texas summer a girl needs to work on her tan & don't worry the CPAP hat is only temporary while we wait for the bleach blonde baby wig. Yes, I am joking maybe if I still lived in Dallas instead of Austin......
The blue light in the picture is Brenna's Bililight (Phototherapy) which shines light from the blue part of the spectrum (there aren't any harmful rays UVA/B etc..) to breakdown the amount of bilirubin in her system. Bilirubin is the byproduct of breaking down red blood cells in the body, not usually a problem, but in newborns & especially premies, there is an excess of blood cells (& thus bilirubin) which can cause a whole mess of problems ranging from jaundice to cerebral palsy. The light-do not ask me how cuz I do not know-turns the bilirubin into lumirubin which can be harmlessly secreted from her system. Oh, & yes it is because of the Bililight that Brenna has her first pair of baby shades.
Brenna's bilirubin level has gone up not a big problem so far, just means that she needs to spend more time under the Bililight to get them down, No big deal, but if you saw the Kangaroo Care picture you know that there is no light when we do this & yup, gotta cut down on Kangaroo time. I feel bad for Daddy, until Brenna's Bilirubin levels come down he's going to lose out on holding her.....;0)

More Pictures

I am still trying to figure out exactly how to upload pictures and video to the blog, but to see more Brenna pics in the meantime you can visit my Facebook page (Aimee Kalmus)

Brenna's Debut

A little background for those who don't already know-& I know we are still playing catch-up with e-mails, phone calls and texts. Brenna was born last Tuesday due to an emergency c-section as Mom had pre-eclampsea and the placenta had start to tear from the uterus putting both Mom & daughter at risk. Luckily my visit to the ER was early enough that both of us are now doing fine-Brenna is in fact GREAT! She was born at 27 weeks and was immediately flown to NICU at Seton Hospital in Central Austin and will be staying here until she reaches the 40 weeks/meets the criteria for her to go home.
The biggest risk with premie babies is bleeding in the brain; in 95% of all premies there is some sort of bleeding which can be 'normal' to severe which can lead to a series of problems/disabilities down the road. While it is still early, at least we have passed this major hurdle Brenna's brain scan came back normal-no bleeding in the brain at all-so far so good, like I said she is doing GREAT!!
One of the other big obsticals that face premie's is lung development/breathing on their own, once again I am proud to report that Brenna is breathing on her own & has been for a couple of days. She will be on CPAP (what looks like her snorkle in the pictures) until she doubles her weight-2 to 3 more weeks, but she is breathing on her own and has had very few apnea (stop breathing) incidents.
So far that is where Brenna is at, we are now able to do Kangaroo Care with her which is where Mom or Dad have skin to skin contact with her and hold her for at least an hour. This is supposed to be the best thing for Brenna at the moment, but let me tell you it is the best thing in the world for Mom & Dad.
I am trying to figure out how to get the pictures & video to post to the blog, so please bare with me in the meantime-I will get it up ASAP, well as soon as I am done with Brenna because all this talk about her, I need to go hold her.